{"id":105,"date":"2025-08-15T12:58:43","date_gmt":"2025-08-15T12:58:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/?p=105"},"modified":"2025-08-15T12:58:43","modified_gmt":"2025-08-15T12:58:43","slug":"5-annem-her-zaman-bana-karsi-sevgi-dolu-olmasina-ragmen-neden-hayatta-en-cok-ona-tepkiliyim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/?p=105","title":{"rendered":"5- Annem her zaman bana kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi dolu olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, neden hayatta en \u00e7ok ona tepkiliyim?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"656\" src=\"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Art-Blog.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-106\" srcset=\"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Art-Blog.jpeg 500w, https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Art-Blog-229x300.jpeg 229w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sevgi<\/strong> ve <strong>\u00f6fke<\/strong> bir arada var olabilir. \u00d6zellikle anneyle olan ili\u015fkilerde bu durum olduk\u00e7a yayg\u0131nd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc anne, hayat\u0131n en ba\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren hem<strong> ihtiya\u00e7 duyulan<\/strong> hem de g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc duygularla <strong>ba\u011f kurulan<\/strong> ilk fig\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Sevgi, ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k ve ihtiya\u00e7lar kadar <strong>beklentiler, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fclmeme hissi <\/strong>de bu ili\u015fkiye d\u00e2hildir.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Annen sevgi dolu biri olabilir, ama bu onun her zaman seni tam olarak anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131, duygular\u0131n\u0131 yeterince kar\u015f\u0131layabildi\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmeyebilir. Bazen \u00e7ocuklukta ifade edilemeyen k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar, <strong>zamanla i\u00e7erde birikir.<\/strong> \u00c7ocukken s\u00f6ylenemeyen s\u00f6zler, yeti\u015fkinlikte <strong>pasif tepkiler<\/strong> ya da <strong>su\u00e7lulukla kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k \u00f6fke<\/strong> olarak geri d\u00f6nebilir. Bu da ki\u015fiyi hem annesine <strong>yak\u0131n<\/strong> hissederken hem de ona kar\u015f\u0131 <strong>kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k duygular<\/strong> ta\u015f\u0131r hale getirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psikodinamik terapide bu t\u00fcr \u00e7eli\u015fkili duygular\u0131n izini s\u00fcrmek, onlar\u0131 <strong>yarg\u0131lamadan anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak<\/strong> \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen en \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fimiz ki\u015filere en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc tepkileri veririz. Bu, sevgi eksikli\u011finden de\u011fil, ba\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7indeki <strong>g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen yaralardan<\/strong> kaynaklan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kendinize \u015fu sorular\u0131 sorabilirsiniz:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 Anneme kar\u015f\u0131 hissetti\u011fim tepkiler, onun bana bug\u00fcn yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerden mi, yoksa ge\u00e7mi\u015fte i\u00e7imde kalan duygulardan m\u0131 kaynaklan\u0131yor?<br>\u2013 Benim ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fum \u201csevgi\u201d tam olarak nas\u0131ld\u0131? Onun verdi\u011fiyle ayn\u0131 m\u0131yd\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sevgi ve \u00f6fke bir arada var olabilir. \u00d6zellikle anneyle olan ili\u015fkilerde bu durum olduk\u00e7a yayg\u0131nd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc anne, hayat\u0131n en ba\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren hem ihtiya\u00e7 duyulan hem de g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc duygularla ba\u011f kurulan ilk fig\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Sevgi, ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k ve ihtiya\u00e7lar kadar beklentiler, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fclmeme hissi de bu ili\u015fkiye d\u00e2hildir.\u00a0 Annen sevgi dolu biri olabilir, ama bu onun [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-1-soru-1-cevap"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=105"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":107,"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions\/107"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oznurersan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}